Fun Annoying Rewarding Challanging Homophobic, Sexist, Racist (you pick an ism) Girl, when I tell you these companies be having us so fucked up... In 2011 I moved back to the Chicagoland area because I'd been admitted to grad school at DePaul. It took me 5 years an a liberal arts degree to realize that... Continue Reading →
Life Post: Watching My Sister Have A Baby
In late 2018 my sister asked me if I wanted to be in the room when she gave birth to my nephew. I was excited to actually witness this in person and said hells yeah! She wasn't due until the end of February and so we were just chillin. She'd come to my house a... Continue Reading →
Top 5 Vacation Locations for the Solo Stud
Look bois and gurls and boys and girls. It's hard out here being a stud. As if being black, female, and gay wasn't enough, I had to go and throw a good dose of gender-non-conformity on top of it. I'm a professional though, I work hard on complex projects and I like to travel. I'll... Continue Reading →
Breathless Rivera Cancun
Come through it's lit! One of my best friends turned 30 in August. She wanted to celebrate at a luxury all inclusive resort in Mexico, y'all know I like all inclusive so off we go. A note on booking, I've been doing my own research on the best sites to book vacations and I think... Continue Reading →
Travel thoughts: put your phone down
Back in 2012, before I went abroad with my graduate student program, we we were all given a piece of advice: you dont have to take pictures of everything, put your phone or camera down and enjoy the moments and things happening around you. I didn't really take that to heart back then, but I... Continue Reading →
TBT- Where the hell is Estonia?
The other portion of my travel to Italy trip in grad school was a trip up to Estonia.
Euro Trippin with my Sister Part 1
6 Days in Europe with my sister!
Luxury All-Inclusive
Went to Mexico with my partner. Got hit on by swingers, said no to all of them, had a lot of tequila.
I’m all the way up–Views from Singapore
I should really probably do research on some of the countries I visit before I visit them. But there is a part of me that relishes the mystery of the unknown… I think people tend to romanticize traveling for work. Now I won’t complain about it either, my life is not generally hard when I’m... Continue Reading →
Life Story: Intersectionality Is Stressful
So I was aggressively laid off in October. I know, you're like what the fuck is an aggressive layoff? So picture it, Chicago, September 2018. I'm working as a project lead at an IT consulting firm. I was sold on the fact that I thought this company I was working for was liberal. They have... Continue Reading →
Back to Montego Bay : RIU Reggae
Seriously, I'm so done with RIU resorts. This is the third one I've been to and I have yet to be even remotely impressed. The RIU Reggae Montego Bay was just built in 2016, if you haven't read my other posts, the last time I went to Jamaica we stayed at the RIU Montego Bay.... Continue Reading →
Throwback Thursday: Australia 2014
I know, I'm not smiling in the photo, it was hot (January in Aus is Summer), plus I didn't want to damn smile so heh. I worked at SmithBucklin from 2011- 2015. I was broke as all hell, but I got a wealth of experience, a whole gang of airline miles, and a bunch of... Continue Reading →
Gators + Miami
So, I'm working on a story for y'all about my first time in Miami Beach. But I want to put y'all on some game about this gator tour I went on at Everglades National Park or whatever its called. So, If you don't know this already I love doing touristy things in new cities. So... Continue Reading →
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